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Here's a little something i got to share with the females:
- How long he's been hanging out with his friends: A guy who has been friends with the same posse since he was 10 years old can certainly claim loyalty as one of his strong suits.But,you better like what you see,because he's probably not great with change.And be patient, because it will take a while for you to win his trust.If your date has buddies from all areas of his life i.e. college, the gym, work-dont be afraid to drag him to your cousin's wedding.He has no problem schmoozing strangers and adapts to new situations easily.
- Credit VS Cash: A guy who likes to flash his plastic craves status.He may be ambitious and confident. He'll reach his financial goals.If he always pays in cash,he's self-sufficient and independent,which might make him a difficult dude to corner. And if his wallet is dry?Heres a guy whos dependent on others to take care of him.
- His bad habits: Gambling men are risk-takers, which can make them a lot of fun.But their over-the-top optimism that theyll come out ahead makes it difficult for them to face reality.Hard-core smokers tend to be anxious so it can be hard to pin them down for couple-time. And if he's a boozer,he could be hiding his insecurity behind his buzz.
- His communication style: When your date opts to email you rather than call he could be a hard nut to crack.The fact that he chooses a communication method that allows him to edit what he says signals that he might not want to show his true self.An IM addict craves your nonstop attention and needs that instant assurance that you're there for him. And the phone fan?He might be a little old-fashioned and likes to do things by the book. But,hes not afraid of intimacy.
- The clothes you wear that turn him on: If your fave T-shirt and jeans or a cute little sundress do more for him than your slinky black number,youre dating an earthy, laid-back guy who likes equally laid-back, low-maintenance chicks.A man who's wowed by a woman who likes to get dolled up in high-end designer duds places a high priority on prestige.He'll probably make a lot of money,but it also might play too important a role in his life.And a guy who wants a Carmen Electra-sexy girl on his arm is looking for an ego boost.He places a lot of value on being admired and envied.
- If he always initiates sex: Does your guy jump your bones whenever, well, he gets a boner?He's probably confident in your mutual attraction.Surprisingly,however,he could also be on the conservative side and believe in traditional gender roles.As for the guy who waits for you to green-light him before making his move,he's likely to be an eager-to-please person or still healing a damaged ego from some serious rejection in his past.
- Favorite tv shows: Take note if he parks himself in front of one sitcom after another.Here's a guy who uses humor to defuse stress.This can be a good thing,because he won't hold a grudge against you or lose his cool.But it also might be hard to get into a serious conversation with him,which can be frustrating as hell.The more you try to discuss something important, the more evasive he will become.A couch sleuth who's fascinated by CSI-type shows,on the other hand,is analytical and thoughtful.He prides himself on his problem-solving abilities and will be there for you when you need support.
- His choice in underwear: Tightie-whities are the sign of a man whos proud of his equipment and how he uses it.The tighter they are,the more eager he is to show you his sexual skills and the less able he is to attune to your needs.Men who prefer donning boxers and boxer briefs might be less showy in bed,but they're more willing to keep the focus on you.And as for a guy who goes commando?He's a free spirit who's comfortable with his body.
- His sexual style: You can't judge a guy by one night in the sack (they get first-night jitters too), but a couple of booty calls can offer plenty of personality clues.If he's a 10-minute man,he's a Type A personality and very results-oriented,which can make him a little selfish..and not just in bed.On the other hand,a man who lavishes you with affection and spends hours hunting for your hot spots wants to connect with you on all levels and is generally a good communicator out of the bedroom as well.
- His birth order: The oldest child is usually a responsible,take-charge kind of guy.If your babe is the baby of his brood,he's likely to be creative and a little rebellious.As for a middle man,he's a sensitive soul who needs loads of attention.
